the Clair
Academy
is a digital resource library that was created to help you remember the version of you who never questioned her power.
INSIDE THE ACADEMY
Ebooks & Guides
Self-Paced Digital Courses
Interactive Workbooks + Dating Checklists
Communication Scripts + Compatibility Tools
connection questions | A Digital Conversation Guide
200 thought-provoking prompts that turn any interaction into a real connection.
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girl, heres your sign
Your guide to dating, dumping, and decoding by the stars
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Situationship Screening
14 Questions to Ask Before a Situationship Starts
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Clair-ity Checklist
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The Clairity Workbook
A step-by-step guide to figuring out what matters To you, in dating + relationships.
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red flag radar
A Workbook for the Woman Who’s Done Settling for Potential
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"I downloaded the Red Flag Workbook after a situation left me overthinking.." everything.
What I loved is how clear and to the point it was. I wish I had this 5 years ago, it would’ve saved me so much time and heartbreak.
Danielle, 38
dating again
Workbook
THE RED-FLAG
What’s Inside:
Instant Digital Download
Printable & Device-Friendly
- Gut-check quizzes & checklists (aka your “Is it him or am I spiraling?” diagnostic tool)
- Journal prompts that don’t sugarcoat but do heal
- Space to reclaim your standards, power, and self-respect, without deleting your dating apps just yet...
This isn’t just about spotting red flags. It’s about choosing you, loudly, lovingly, and without second-guessing your gut feelings.
Because your peace is priceless. And if he’s not adding to it, he’s subtracting from it.
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“Helped me end a situationship I should’ve left months ago.”
Clair's guides don't tell you what to do. They asks the right things so you can figure out what’s no longer working for yourself. These tools gave me the push I needed to stop waiting and finally walk away.
Sarah, 34
currently single
Translator
THE TEXT
What’s Inside:
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Printable & Device-Friendly
💬 10 Classic Texts (and what they really mean)
🚩 Red Flags vs Green Flags (and how to tell the damn difference)
📱 High-Value Woman Text Templates (say it once, say it well)
⚡ Real-life scenarios with both power and flirty responses
🧠 Gut check questions to stop self-abandoning for a maybe
📈 A flowchart that saves your dignity (and your weekend)
💌 A pep talk to reread before you text your ex back
🚩 Red Flags vs Green Flags (and how to tell the damn difference)
📱 High-Value Woman Text Templates (say it once, say it well)
⚡ Real-life scenarios with both power and flirty responses
🧠 Gut check questions to stop self-abandoning for a maybe
📈 A flowchart that saves your dignity (and your weekend)
💌 A pep talk to reread before you text your ex back
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connection questions | A Digital Conversation Guide
200 thought-provoking prompts that turn any interaction into a real connection.
Download Now →
girl, heres your sign
Your guide to dating, dumping, and decoding by the stars
Download Now →
Situationship Screening
14 Questions to Ask Before a Situationship Starts
Download Now →
Clair-ity Checklist
Download Now →
The Clairity Workbook
A step-by-step guide to figuring out what matters to you, in dating + relationships.
Download Now →
red flag radar
A Workbook for the Woman Who’s Done Settling for Potential
Download Now →
“I wish I had this ten years ago, but I’m glad I had it before meeting him.”
I bought the Clairity Workbook after ending a messy on-again, off-again thing that drained the life out of me. I was scared I’d repeat the same pattern again—and honestly, I probably would have if I didn’t sit down with these guides and really look at how I was showing up.
After going through the workbook I was finally able to see what I was accepting, and why. A few months later I got the Dating Clairity Checklist and met someone who actually shows up. Like, for real. And for the first time, I feel safe and seen.
These guides helped me stop settling for “almost.” I don’t think I would’ve been ready for this kind of relationship without doing that work first.
maya, 30
in a relationship
Checklist
The Dating Clair-ity
Every Woman Needs
Instant Digital Download
Printable & Device-Friendly
This digital dating safety audit helps you:
- Ask the right questions to cut through the charm and reveal who he actually is (not who he wants to be on Instagram)
- Links to run his photos, number, and his usernames.
- A number-saving system we call the Red Flag Rolodex™ (Because labeling men like evidence is actually healing)
- Most importantly: feel calm, clear, and in control before that first drink is even ordered.
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“These guides helped me break my own cycle.”
After ending an 8-year relationship, I realized I had no idea how to trust myself in dating. I kept second-guessing everything and falling for the same emotionally unavailable types. Heres Your Sign and The Clairity Workbook gave me questions I didn’t even know I needed to ask myself. I started seeing my own patterns...not in a judgmental way, but in a clear, empowering way. I’m not rushing anything now. I’m finally dating with standards.
Tiffany, 36, recently out of a long-term relationship
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If you like your dating + relationship advice with a side of sarcasm and screenshots, you’re in the right place.