About Clair

behind the agency

imClair

I finally stopped playing detective and became one—

for real.

I made it through the fire—and decided to build a lighthouse.

I’ve been the woman who fell too fast and gave too much. I’ve dated the avoidents, the narcissist, the double-lifers, and the sweet talkers with secrets. And for way too long, I convinced myself that if I just loved them more, they’d eventually choose me.

I’ve spiraled at 2am wondering if I was crazy or if he was just a really good liar. I’ve looked at my phone, waiting for a text that never came… while my intuition screamed, “Girl, he’s not who you think he is.”

I trusted words over actions. I romanticized the red flags, even married a few of them. I twisted myself into knots trying to decode mixed signals from men who barely knew how to spell "emotionally available." And then one day, I hit my limit.

What I'm

learning

That trusting yourself is a daily practice, not a one-time decision.

That clarity doesn’t always come with celebration—sometimes it comes with grief, with endings, with letting go of the version of you that kept settling.

I’m learning that helping other women find the truth is the most sacred thing I can do.

I’m learning that helping other women find clarity heals something in me, too. That every time I remind someone to trust their gut, I’m also reminding a past version of myself—the one who doubted, overgave, and stayed too long.

I’m learning how deeply we’ve been conditioned to question our intuition, to shrink in the face of discomfort, to call ourselves “crazy” before calling out the truth.

I’m learning that silence can be louder than words. That patterns matter more than promises. And that clarity—real, clarity—isn’t just power… it’s PEACE.

What I'm

loving

I’m loving that I get to guide other women back to their power—And I’m loving myself for finally choosing mine.

I’m loving watching women come back to themselves, raise their standards, and rewrite their story without shame.

I’m loving the way they light up when they finally say, “I knew it. I just needed someone to say it back.”

I’m loving that I get to do this work. And I’m loving who I am becoming because of it.